First off the heartburn. When I was pregnant the first time, I got heartburn pretty bad for most of my last trimester. So when I started my third trimester this time around I expected heartburn. However, I wasn't really getting any. Now that I am down to my last monthish the heartburn has set in and seems to be here to stay. I have been getting it pretty bad everyday, and in most cases, all day lately. This thursday I only have 4 weeks left so hopefully I can just tough it out and get through it, I mean this is nothing compared to labor right?
Now to the headaches part. Not a physical headache but more of just figurative one. This wedding is only 12 days away. I have not gotten any form of conformation on the program order and need to start printing them. If I don't hear anything in the next couple days I am just going to start printing them and say how I made them is how they are going to be. The other thing that we found out today that was kind of frustrating has to do with the groomsmens ties. Colby's brother, the groom, said it didn't matter what they wore as long as it was a purple tie. We disagreed with everyone having different ties so today while we were looking for a tie for Colby they had enough of the one he liked to get one for his other two brothers. Before we bought them though, I wanted to make sure they didn't already have a tie they were planning to wear. Colby ended up calling his brothers girlfriend, the maid of honor, since his brother was at work and she usually know about everything that is happening. She informed us that the bride was getting all the groomsmen matching ties so we didn't need to worry about it. This is the third different thing we have heard about these dumb ties. I really hope she does get the ties and we aren't out trying to find matching ties for all of them the night before the wedding.
We are so close to the day and it seems as though there are many questions unanswered still. I guess we are just not in the loop enough with everything since we live in a different state. Im just hoping they are not expecting us to do anything else with out asking or confirming that they want us to do it. There has been A LOT of assuming going on with the bride and groom and other people doing things. For example, I offered to look up readings and even read them during the ceremony if they wanted. I never heard anything either way so I was just gonna forget it. But alas we are doing the readings and we had to hear it from someone else.
The only thing I am concerned about that I have asked about more then once is how they are planning to get the little girls down the aisle. All they tell me is Colby's little sister will be escorting them. What is that suppose to mean? Will they be in something or is she carrying the our niece, who can't walk on her own or very well holding onto someone yet, and then Harper is suppose to walk next to them? Our niece is about 3 months younger then but weighs more then Harper. I don't know how Colby's sister, who is only 11, is going to carry one toddler down the aisle while still worrying about Harper who is walking. Also Harper can be kind of shy sometimes when a lot of people are watching her and when she is around people she doesn't really know, which will be everyone there besides Colby and I. Maybe with us at the end of the aisle she will want to walk to us but I can not guarantee she will or be happy about doing it. Guess we will just have to wait and see how everything goes or if anyone tells about whats going on.
Even though I am 99% sure this baby will not be coming until December, I have been having thoughts and dreams about the baby coming righting before the wedding or while we are down there. Its just pregnancy I'm sure but I have always had weird dreams so it doesn't worry me but still I do not, I mean really do NOT want to have this baby down in Kansas hopefully the baby feels the same way.
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